Betrayal .

Posted by filth (114 days ago)

I feel used . and disappointed . I have A friend and her boyfriend was ..( i thought is goin through a rough time ) . wanna me to help out , help them to make more friends . build the network to help their children wear biz , that's fine, they said offer me commission per person I invite to their apartment to hang out . and they even said will draw a black and white contract with that .

I able to bring to brought more than 10 strangers to make friend with my couple friends . and when I brought out what they offer me before they goes they money is not that good at the moment .. I need to bring more and arrange more parties fro them .

And they keep saying I ve been doing a good job. now they knows a lot of people and can spread their biz .

I just feel used .and Now I m so regret to help tham in the first place, and I so want to tell all the ppl I brought over to thier place that they don't really want to make friends . they are just using your words to help their biz ..

what should I do NOW?

(I am based in Hong Kong)

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Posted by wing-on (114 days ago)

You need to get a lawyer who specialises in the selling friends business.

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by Electrode (104 days ago)

Sounds common.

You say you feel used.

If you were paid how would you feel?

You probably feel cheated because from the outset you were doing this for reward and not out of the kindness of your heart; therefore weren't used you were not rewarded as agreed.

As for what you should do.

You'll never get paid, so if you want them as friends do nothing and chalk it as experience.

If you never want to see them again, see above.

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by Justin Credible (Part Deux) (92 days ago)

I'm a little confused...this was about selling friends? What is the story here about? What kind of dodgy friends are these?

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by flashback (92 days ago)

Right... so your hard-up friends started a children's clothing party-plan business... but because they are losers, they have no friends... so step in kind-hearted you... and offer to help... They do you over, and now you - like everyone else before you - doesn't want to be friends with these losers, who are temporarily 'winners' now... But guess what, these kinds of people only prosper temporarily... They have an unfortunate habit of abandoning contracts, and abusing relationships. their friends today will be - like you - their enemies of tomorrow.

My advice? Let the universe unfold as it will on this. If you really want to waste your time by taking them to court... you could.. but remember, you are only advised to litigate against people who have some assets to claim. It will cost you to get a writ and start proceedings. And for what? To have your day in court, but ultimately find out that their enterprise is not paying even wages.

Chalk it up. These folk are in some seriously dysfunctional patterns. They let people down, and people have a habit of not forgetting.

(I am based in Hong Kong)

Posted by Justin Credible (Part Deux) (92 days ago)

So true! Amen! With one sibling selling Herbalife, I know exactly what you are talking about fb! Wow!

(I am based in Hong Kong)